“You never know what you are worth, just like my mom” “a mother with bad luck better not die with her babies” “a swan feather with good intentions” “how could a mom taught her daughter to hope big while she lost all her hope?” 和《北京人在紐約》同為1993年的文藝作品，超越時代的意義。只想嚎啕大哭，為了所有女性。討論了很多時至今日都在討論的內容，比如討好型人格。